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There is this person whom i met during my service to the nation. its strange as the person just didn't react the same way. sure this person is very human, with temper and all, but this person has something that taught me and changed me. in a good way of course..

so this person, on the first day when we met, greeted me and gave me a warm welcome.. shook my hands and smiled at me. i still remember clearly when this person said, dont worry.. you'll know that things are very different here and we are very nice people.

at that point i didnt believe of course. as usual.... we humans just like to test things out.

after a few days past.. i began to realise i'm indeed quite lucky, being in that place under this person's charge.. i began working hard for this person, helping this person in everything, learning from this person how to analyse situations and having a goal and solution to things we face.

as time passed by, this person began asking about my family, my life, my relationships and myself... it's different when people just ask you to do things and never had the intention of building a relationship or bond. although this person is much more senior than me, i was treated like a son, a junior. this person would rebuke me and scold me if i didnt behave gentlemanly... this person would say, "cannot! how can you treat your girlfriend this way?"

this person always spared a thought for my well being, my thoughts and my feelings. i have a girlfriend and this person understood the ability of how the relation with esther can affect my mood and emotions. i was always in favor and blessed. i was given time off, day offs and even chances to go off at 12pm from camp on weekdays. ?????? what the??? right? haha..

we worked hard, worked late and worked together importantly.

i learnt the most out of this few weeks, although i dont do much. i learnt the importance of love and relationships. of bonds. i learnt how to be a good boyfriend, a good husband to be.

this person is a good husband, a good father and a good man.

He is not a Christian, sadly. But here is someone who knew the virtues of living, and someone who succeeded in being human and bigger than life in an organisation like this. i thank him, i am blessed by him.

His name is Maran.






alright.. so the story ends..

haha my week is not bad la. this week do nothing much watch dvd.. cock up la RP.. i learn nothing. most of the time.. haha.. and thanks sweetheart. its almost a year and i'm so excited. and im so glad. its going strong and though its never smooth, its the process of shaping.

i love you honey. always.. <3